1. My relationship with God is the most important relationship I will ever have.  All other relationships should be entered into asking myself if this would be something that God would approve of.                                                                   2.  Although my daddy was an amazing father, he would never want me to choose a man like him.  (I found this to be true when he was dying and he didn’t want to let go because he was worried about me being ok).                                                   3.  Its not ok for me to allow anyone to make me feel like I’m less than them.  If changes need to be made within let it be because I want to change and not because someone else doesn’t like me fir who I already am.                 4.  Intuition, the subtle knowing without having any idea why, is one of the best gifts from God, other than bring able to bear children.  When used correctly, it could save me from a lifetime of heartache.                                5.  Secure my future financially at a young age because circumstances can blindside me and change the entire course of my life.  Well that happens in many different areas of life.                                                                  6.  Do what I am passionate about and it will take care me.                                7.  My happiness is essential to living my best life so that I could help my loved ones live their best life.  And I am responsible for my own happiness.                                                                 8.  Don’t beat myself up for making mistakes.  Mistakes are essential in building character and I know it’s cliche’, but I am so much better for having made them.                                                 9.  I am beautiful and the best me that I can be.  And I get better everyday!        10.  The best gift I can give to others is to live my best life, love hard, laugh often, and walk in my purpose!